Fully adopted
A common saying in American culture is that “We’re all God’s children.” This phrase is usually spoken as a soft-voiced platitude when attempting to stop a discussion about someone else’s poor behavior.
However, we don’t find anything like this statement in the Bible. Instead, we read that when someone does something wrong – tells a lie, commits murder, or anything in-between – we are revolting against our original design. The Bible makes it clear that we are creatures living in rebellion to our Creator. Nevertheless, the Bible does tell us it is possible for us rebels to change sides – for God’s creation to become God’s children.
How that happens was discussed in last week’s post. We found that Jesus talked about it often, and His disciples echoed the same theme in their later writings. The Apostle John concisely explained it at the beginning of his gospel:
John 1:12
But to all who did receive Him, He gave them the right to be children of God, to those who believe in His name
When we believe in Jesus for eternal life, we become one of God’s children. We are adopted into God’s Holy family.
But after this moment of adoption…then what happens? Our life’s circumstances are largely the same. We’re still interacting with the same people we were before we believed in Jesus. So, how are we supposed to navigate this life now that we are officially one of “God’s children”?
Many authors in the New Testament deal with what a Christian’s life looks like in this new family setting. Most of the Apostle Paul’s letters are of him answering questions of what God expects His children to do, and Paul gives guidance on how God helps us. This is especially true for his letter to the church in Rome. The point of this letter is to tell believers how they can avoid God’s punishment (referred to as “His wrath”) in our lives here on earth.
In Chapters 6-8, Paul honestly discusses the difficulties we face with the internal war between us living selfishly and us living rightly. It is a conflict between our past way of life – referred to as “the flesh” – and our new way of life – referred to as “the spirit”. Paul repeatedly encouraged them to make the right choice, and at one point reminded them of the characteristics of the new life they had received when they believed in Jesus:
Romans 8:15
For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear. Instead, you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father!”
The Aramaic word Abba would be equivalent to our English word “daddy”. As adopted children of God, we no longer have to be afraid of God…instead, He has become our loving father, one that we can reliably call out to for help.
For further explanation of how Paul’s Roman readers would have understood this adoption process, here is some additional detail from Manners & Customs of the Bible:
Among the Greeks and Romans, when a man had no son, he was permitted to adopt one even though not related. He might, if he chose, adopt one of his slaves as a son. The adopted son took the name of the father, and was in every respect regarded and treated as a son. Among the Romans there were two parts to the act of adoption: one a private arrangement between the parties, and the other a formal public declaration of the fact. It is thought by some that the former is referred to in this verse [8:15], and the latter in verse 23, where the apostle speaks of “waiting for the adoption.” The servant has been adopted privately, but he is waiting for a formal public declaration of the fact.
In Romans 8:19-22, Paul discusses how the created world has been corrupted by the effects of sin, that even nature longs to be set free. And then he compares nature’s longing with our own longing to be fully free as well…as you read the comparison, look for his second mentioning of adoption:
Romans 8:23
Not only that [the creation wants to be freed], but we ourselves who have the Spirit as the firstfruits – we also groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for adoption, the redemption of our bodies.
When we believe in Jesus for eternal life, the private adoption takes place. We immediately have full access to our Father, and we have all the access and privileges of being one of His children. However, the formal, public adoption proclamation has not yet taken place. At that time, the flesh we currently fight against will be the body that is redeemed.
As we wait for that day, and as we navigate this still sin-soaked world, remember that we have received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father!” You have every right to do so, and be confident that God always takes care of His children.
Keep Pressing,
Ken